Who you surround yourself with, is who you become.
It is a simple formula that if you wish to laugh and be happy, you would surround yourself with people who make you smile and laugh, who lift your spirits higher, who exude positive energies mentally and emotionally. Surround yourself with people who will appreciate you, value you, motivate you, believe in you, inspire you, care about you, love you. Be with the ones who make you feel good about yourself. Anything short of that is not worth it because life is too short to be anything but happy.
At the end of the day, that is everyone’s goal…to be happy. It does not matter that each of us just have a different perception of what happiness is, and what we think we need in order to make us happy. It is all relative, personal, and it is our prerogative to decide for ourselves what will make us happy, and what happiness is. But the ultimate goal is the same: to attain that feeling of peace, contentment, and joy.
Since like attracts like and everything comes full circle, therefore choose wisely which types of friends you wish to keep in your inner circle, which partner you wish to spend the rest of your life with…for this will be the energy you will vibrate most frequently at. What characteristics, core values and principles do you appreciate, value and honor? If you wish to keep your vibrations high, positive, loving, successful and joyful, then likewise choose the people whom you surround yourself with, to be of that vibrational frequency. The rest can be acquaintances.
Just as the movies we watch, the music we listen to, the books we read, the fragrances we smell, the food we put in our mouth, the situations we find ourselves in, all illicit certain emotions and reactions from us, the same applies for the people we surround ourselves with. We are opening all our senses to the elements we wish to (and allow) ourselves to absorb. It is a process which many of us actually take for granted and don’t think about. I suggest that you should think about it and make it a conscious decision who you choose to get close to, and who you allow to get close to you.
So, who do you want to be? How do you want your life to become? How do you manifest it? It is who and what you surround yourself with. It is what you say and how you treat others. It is what you think, and how you feel. It is influence, it is energy, it is mutual, it is the law of attraction. My good friends and i in Redang 🙂